Day 12

Faculty : Pankaj BhimaniTopic : Interpersonal & Negotiation Skills - Part 3

Why are we weak in communication ?? Because we do not listen properly.
Because of bad communication we spoil business, meeting, relationship and many more.

What is Group Discussion, Interview, Meeting  ?? It is all about active communication.

"Listening starts when you realize that you are not listening."


What is fear ??
Fear raises when you fail in some situation. Because that failure creates a fear in our mind.

Our mind has a filter like in MS Excel, which filters our thoughts. Suppose in our mind there is stage fear and when the topic, in which we are powerful or the topic that we know very well, we could not very well perform that topic also on the stage. This is a filter set by our mind that if we perform on stage and make any small mistake, people will laugh on us and this is what doesn't allow us to perform very well on the stage.

Our mind has one attribute called "Generalize". It mean our mind generalizes the things. For example if only two / three people ignore you, our mind will make a conclusion that Nobody cares for me.

After these sir discussed about our conscious and sub conscious mind. Whatever new things you learn in your life first of all it will be stored in your conscious mind and by repeating that thing gradually, it moves from conscious mind to sub conscious mind.

For Example remember that first day when you were learning how to drive, what was the expression ? what thought process were running in your mind ? And now how flawlessly you drive ??
That means today the driving process is controlled by our sub conscious mind.

Other thing sir told were, the most difficult task in the life is being yourself. We always be whatever we want to show.

According to one study, the more powerful is your relationship with your parents, the more will be the chances to get success. This study was made on the students of some famous university of the world.

What we are now is because of our past and what we see is our future but we miss one thing that is our present. So live in present without any kind of worry of past or future.

This was also an amazing day without any task / activity .